Trade Offs and Teaching
In each moment of life, we’re making trade offs with time. Oliver Burkeman
That statement seemed ridiculously revelatory when I read it*. A timely reminder that each trade off is a choice about what I’m going to do in a particular moment. And consequently, it’s a choice to NOT do another thing. I riled against having to make those choices for a long time. Was I seriously saying that I didn’t want choice? I think sometimes I just felt like there were too many effing choices and I had decision fatigue! Now, living mindfully (a clichéd term I know) means recognising the choice within each moment and making that choice for the right reasons…from a grounded place.
And THAT means doing the stuff that helps me to be aware of the moments and the choices. Not to let myself get swept along doing without choosing. Which is, in itself, kind of a choice. Journalling, meditating, walking, creating…the usual suspects, are some of the practices that help me see the choices and choose wisely. Some of the time!
That’s it for now. There’s been a lot happening but if you’ve made it this far then you’ve read enough you darling people.
*You’d think I might have had this one sussed by now.