Thoughts on a Thursday

image1. When you have travelled in planes for 24 hours and then driven in a car for 9 hours, sometimes even the company of your magnificent daughters and delightful grand-daughter is not enough to stave off sleep after Christmas lunch;

2. Today marks the beginning of Universal Letter Writing Week and I have undertaken to write one letter (albeit short!) each day for the week. A hand written letter in an envelope with a stamp. Read more about this here!

3. Truly understanding (thanks to being involved in this) that I am a human with limited time and energy and I must make hard choices every single day about where I can put that time and energy can make a profound difference. Jen Louden goes on to say It’s OK to mourn that I can’t do everything, but it’s not OK to pretend that I don’t have to choose.  Choosing is my art. Learning to live this made the latest time in Nepal very different and very special. For me and the ladies!

 

4. On a really long hot ( over 1000 km) drive when one hearing aid isn’t working so you1305549469484 can’t really talk and you only get inklings of music, you can make a wasabi coated pea – just the one – last for 20 minutes from mouth entry to swallowing final crumbs. I had to work up to it and think I could get to 30 minutes now. I can perfect the technique on the next long drive!

5. It’s always good to be reminded that the one thing that you have that nobody else has is you. Your voice, your story, your mind, your vision. So write and draw and build and play and dance and live as only you can. Thank you for your voice Neil Gaiman.

6. Sometimes, reorganising the studio is more important than unpacking.  But because I am learning about these, it was delightful rather than driven!  And not totally finished but good enough to be playing in!

DSCN06797. Visiting the remote  Solu Khumbu home and family of my dear bhai (and Colourful Journey co-leader) Bishnu Rai was one of the most amazing things I have ever done. A joy and a privilege.  We could have done without the earthquake in Okhaldhunga (5.9 on the Richter Scale) but it meant I was all over the earthquake drill when we had another one (tidily at 2.9) in Broken Hill the night we got home!

And who said you can’t maintain a unique sense of style in tiny Himalayan villages? I can tell you where to get the sparkly pink rubber chappals I was wearing with my thick purple socks.

Happy New Year. May we cultivate open, inquiring minds.

6 thoughts on “Thoughts on a Thursday

  1. cathy

    Welcome home Wendy-didi and back to the blog. We missed you and your writing. This is a wonderful snapshot and summary and update! love Cath XX

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    1. wendy Post author

      Thanks so much for hanging in there baby. Not giving up on me, patiently waiting! I love my peeps! (I use that dreadful word with a deep sense of irony!)

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  2. Kate

    Loved this summary of your amazing experiences. Especially love the Neil Gaiman quote. Very glad you are home safely, hopefully your earthquake drill expertise can now be stored away in the ‘never to be used again’ file. x

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    1. wendy Post author

      I hope so to Kate. Easy to look back and laugh but less amusing at the time! Thanks for your patience and persistence with this blog! Hugs, W

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  3. Deb Hunt

    Wendy you are one of the most inspiring women I know. I look forward to hearing about your adventures and may we all follow your example of approaching life with open, inquiring minds. Much love to you and Mal x

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    1. wendy Post author

      Geez you are a dag! Thanks love. Will no doubt keep boring you with the adventures as long as you want to be bored. Never a dull moment you know?! And we will keep encouraging each other to live with prajna– open inquiring minds!

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